‘Consent is changeable’: the importance of discussing and respecting boundaries
BRYAN, Texas (KBTX) – A recent sexual assault arrest in College Station is bringing up larger conversations about the importance of communication and safety in romantic relationships.
The Sexual Assault Resource Center, a Brazos Valley nonprofit, provides services and support to survivors of sexual violence in the area.
Lindsey LeBlanc, executive director of SARC, joined News 3 at Six to discuss how to approach conversations about consent that may appear uncomfortable.
LeBlanc says parents can begin teaching their kids about consent starting at a young age.
“Consent is such an important starting point for I think anyone of any age really,” said said. “We even talk about it at elementary school levels, just with body autonomy and hugs and appropriate touch and things like that.”
As children get older, LeBlanc says parents can begin having more in-depth conversations.
“But really parents need to be setting the stage to make sure that their kids are informed and empowered to make decisions for their own bodies,” she added.
The number one take away from these conversations, according to LeBlanc: consent is changeable.
“You can change your mind, said LeBlanc. “You can head into a date or a conversation saying one thing and then halfway through, you can change your mind and decide that’s not what you want anymore. And that’s sometimes easier said than done.”
LeBlanc says its important to have someone who knows where you are, whether it be a friend or family member, who can help if a situation becomes dangerous or uncomfortable.
SARC has many programs to support survivors of sexual assault, including a 24/7 hotline, 24/7 hospital accompaniment and free counseling. Learn more about the resources SARC provides here.
To support these programs, SARC is holding a fundraising event next month. It’s happening on Friday, Sept. 20 at the Texas A&M Hotel and Conference Center.
Details and tickets for “An Evening Under the Stars” are available here.
